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There’s a lot of emphasis on maintaining one’s virginity more so for girls. So when exactly is the right time for you to have sex?

Ladies your body belongs to you and you alone. You’re the only person who can choose the right time for you. Sex is pleasurable and can help you discover a part of you that you didn’t know existed.

For your first time it’s better to ensure communication between you and your partner so that needs if both parties are met. Sex is more than just the physical it’s mental and emotional also. So make sure you’re first is someone you love/like or at least knows your second name lol.

I cannot emphasis the importance of foreplay enough. There’s a tendency especially among most teenagers to want to rush into penetration without foreplay. Foreplay connects you and your partner emotional, sets the mood and gets the vagina wet.

Does it hurt? The first time for most girls is a bit painful and you may experience discomfort. That’s because your vagina is stretching for the first time to accommodate penetration. It’s important to tell your partner to take it slow and gentle to minimize discomfort. And it’s also why foreplay is important to ensure adequate lubrication to minimize friction.